On October, 04, 2007 12:36 AM , Ola
from Jordan said:

Good post! But I'll have to disagree with you on many points...

Time may not be the healer itself, for what is time anyway? It's about forgetting, blocking your pain away and trying to get over it, or even learn to live with it, it depends on what you decide to do with it... time is what you do with it, just get on with your life and ake your ind off the past, so there!

I agree that the things you go through do change, but not necesserily for the worse. As we mature, we learn that the things around us and the experiences we go through affect us emotionally, and might cause us much pain, but we should not let it touch the core of our character and who we are, and try to embrace the ecperience and learn from it. In every cloud there's a silver lining, and from every situation you can come out with something positive

On October, 04, 2007 2:20 AM , Jerusalem
from Jordan said:

Time is never a healer cause it's not a magical formula, time just increases your porbability of meeting new people who might be the right ones (and the story ends happily) or might be another bunch of idiots (and the past experience is enhanced and even extended with the new one)....

Imagine the numbers line in math, if I'm not mistaken people believe that time is a healer as they think it functions the same way the numbers line does, the more you move, the farther you become from the starting point and thus; the greater your possibility of getting distracted by the new events and surroundings...

Time does not heal, it provides a scientific basis for us to test new things so we can find out that we might have been very stupid for sticking to certain options in the past (the volcano cause whatever it is)..

Time never heals, it just keeps our minds off the painful memories, by creating new ones...

And at last but not at least, if time would ever heal the wounds, we wouldn't have learnt from our mistakes,, cause we would've simply forgotten about the whole past and started freshly all over again...
It's true, to sane logical people; precisley those who were afflicted with photographic memories, time never heals, cause their minds cannot be manipulated in that simple manner!

@ Ola,
Ya weltsham ya weltsham :D
Thanks dear for the comment... Actually we both are on the same page ... When you said "you just get on with your life"...this word "just" shows that you are forced to do that... 2enno you have to do it!... you don't have the choice but move on!...

Blocking your pain doesn't mean that you are done with it... it's always there, but it's shaped and transformed into a different form... When you are in pain and want to move on, you change, and this change is a proof that you really couldn't get over what you have been through without changing the person you are... you learnt...but also changed and that will affect you on higher levels, you aren’t the same person anymore!...

I have never said that change is bad!... I actually discussed that yesterday with a friend... we have to change, this is a part of growth, and it is natural, but growing naturally is different than being forced to grow...

Wallah I missed you and missed your comments my dear :)

@Jerusalem,
ya3ny you left nothing for me to say! God bless you sis...

On October, 04, 2007 9:48 AM , wonders
from United Arab Emirates said:

Lovely post girl, i would have to say that time is not the healer but with time you forget, so Forgetfulness is what heals... as they say it is sometimes a blessing.

On October, 04, 2007 5:34 PM , Jerusalem
from Jordan said:

I can't believe my eyes, Finding Neverland, WOW :D
Sis, give me five for that, love you ;)

On October, 04, 2007 10:35 PM , creez1181
from Jordan said:

your past isn't only your past ,but your pain is only defined as your pain and no one can tell what and how much , you can think you are forced to grow but maybe it was time for you to step out of comfort zone and being peacful with u , and find the changed you , u might not like it now but you'll do later ..
i was stuck in me for years and a not related story of someone else has created me the circle where i jumped out from .. i might be fucking annoying but i beleive things lose their value by time so u'll wake up one morning and what did hurt u today won't hurt tom , so we call it forgotten but its more of an exposed feeling..

one day and that day will come ..
Mais*

On October, 06, 2007 4:25 PM , Fadi K
from Jordan said:

Hi Lama , jaharty bel d3awa?? ;)

Well, of course , time isIS NOT the Healer! Time only help us forget and look from other angles , that's all.

I told you years ago that the Blues is the Healer , it can heal you , it healed me , yes it did yes it did .... Right Caller???

Here : http://www.habersaat.net/Robert/R&B/Music/The%20Healer.wma

On October, 11, 2007 9:24 PM , Maher
from Jordan said:

Lovely post. i went through the whole post, but i must admit that the topic said it all!

another thing..the scar depends on how close that person is for you..right? :>

deep...and precise...
time's the superficial burial of the scars...scars which could re-erupt anytime.

deep...and precise...
time's the superficial burial of the scars...scars which could re-erupt anytime.